How to Not Have a “Kill List” When Folks Have Wronged You(A humorous but heartfelt guide for Black women who are just trying to heal in peace)

Let’s be honest: if Black women actually wrote down every person who played in our face, talked sideways, undermined us, lied on us, or tried us publicly and privately…we’d need a binder, tabs, color-coding, and a highlighter set.

But since we are choosing growth, healing, and non-felonious futures, here’s your playful-but-real guide to not keeping a mental “list.”